No, of course not. Nothing makes me angry more than close minded people that label others. I witnessed several gentlemen on the discussion boards on The Erotic Review call those gentlemen that enjoy pegging as “Gay” and of course me being Anita, that fiery tigress, told them where to head in on that one! I don’t go on those boards anymore as many jerks lurk over there. Being homosexual is rooted in who one wants to have sex with. If you want to have sex with someone of the same sex as you then, yes, that would make you homosexual or at the very least bisexual.
If you want a girl to fuck you in the ass with a toy or strap-on with dildo attached, then that does not make you homosexual. You want that girl to fuck you. Somehow that is sexy to you and that gets your hot button going. A gentlemen’s P spot in his anus has a lot of sensual nerve endings. Having it stimulated by a woman either in a prostate massage or through strap-on play, well that is what is turning him on. He isn’t asking another gentlemen to fuck him. He is asking a woman to play with his ass or fuck him.
I love allowing men to express their desires in the bedroom. That’s the one area I think they should be able to have their desires met and feel accepted in doing so. I know many don’t feel as comfortable at home expressing their desires because that is a place they get many No’s. I am guessing wives are not into doing butt play with their husbands (that is if the husbands had the nerve to even ask them for it).
In my bedroom, I have various size dildos that attach to my strap-on. I am fastidious on making sure they are cleaned after every use. For the toys that are simply used for prostate massages, I do use a condom on them. Many of these toys have a motor in them that vibrate. Some gentlemen have tried prostate massages and strap-on play and it just hasn’t been for them. There are some gentlemen that just love prostate massage and/or strap-on play. It isn’t for everyone but gentlemen should feel comfortable in exploring their desires and explaining what they want to try. The key is using enough lube and making the gentlemen take the toy or dildo in slowly to get used to it.
If it does feel great to them, gentlemen can get such euphoric stimulation that will just add to their cataclysmic orgasm.
Yes, in my bedroom, my clients get happy endings also known as orgasms. Some gentlemen want strap-on play and still want intercourse after. Some want the oral bbbj happy endings or hand jobs.
So gentlemen, feel free to always express your sexual desires. There is nothing wrong with experimentation in the bedroom. This Wild Tigress does not judge.
Hugs and voraciously hungry kisses,
Anita