Ho hum, gentlemen, what a quandry. Yes, I do know there are many bad stories out there regarding escorts/providers robbing, extorting, blackmailing and taking advantage of gentlemen. Do know that the vast majority in those bad stories are providers that are drug addicted and have pimps (not Independent mature providers). I put my info out there, am brutally honest in my blog and even provide my reviews good and bad on this website so you all almost can know me before our first meet!
I know I may not be your cup a tea, a flabby, smaller chested saggy boobed age 55 year old woman but I am sure a lot of fun in session! I don’t take advantage of you other than wanting your passionate kisses, your mouth and tongue on my breasts and clit, and my ability to ride your back and leg to get off! I don’t want you as my husband and I won’t contact you unless you contact me to set up an appointment.
I think you all need to realize that we both have a lot to lose here. I don’t want my family to find out and I do not want to lose my townhouse. One screw up on my part and the whole house of cards comes tumbling down on me. See I understand you because I don’t want my family to find out either. So your secret hobby is safe with me because I know how you feel. I also know what it’s like to be neglected and have no sex during marriage for 10 years. That’s why you can have a secret friend in Anita, one that is discreet and has been there. I feel for both you and “Skippy”.
I also know that some of you would never come to see me because maybe you are not old enough or you like the spinners and cover models. So for those of you on the ledge and looking for that kind of woman, here are a few tips to help protect yourselves:
1. Do your homework. Read up on the provider’s website, in all her ads and also all of the available reviews on her. The major review sites: The Erotic Review (“TER”), I suggest even paying for a VIP account ($75 for three months) as I believe TER allows you to pay by gift card now (anonymity) and you can read everything on all the providers (search by name, location, age groups, phone numbers). Other review sites: Escort Babylon, Erotic Monkey, ECCIE, USAGuide. Some providers do change their phone numbers to avoid bad reviews so I suggest you Google a name search in addition to phone number search. For example, for Anita, search escort Wild Anita in Chicago or escort Anita in Schaumburg. I am guessing it gets you to my website first followed by the TER reviews.
2. Avoid the bad neighborhoods. Yes, I know there can be diamonds in the rough but I am just suggesting this for safety reasons.
3. Stick to mature providers. Yes, there are plenty of thin athletic mature women if that is the body type you prefer.
4. If you must go to an agency (so many prefer agencies), make sure the agency has a good reputation for discretion. I personally don’t know why gentlemen want to do business with agencies as there are so many great independent escorts with good or great reviews out there. Yes, I was a provider with an agency in 2014 for a few months and I would NEVER go back. That life just stunk in more ways than one.
5. Join P411. I know, it means you have to open yourself up to scrutiny with providing your real name, contact info, drivers licence and work info but P411 is discreet and it is a ONE time providing your ID and the remaining information. I don’t ask P411 gentlemen for their ID’s and work info as I know they provided that already when they joined. The good thing about P411 is I (and other providers) had to go through that kind of scrutiny also when I joined P411. So all the lovelies on P411 are legitimate providers that had their backgrounds checked, their ID’s photo’d, their reviews and references to get on that site. I would suggest the gentlemen clients registered on P411 stick with the lovely providers on P411 for the safety and discretion it does provide them. Also, the providers give “Okays” to the clients they see through P411 so for me it is much easier not having to contact other providers for references. For those interested in joining P411 that are my regular clients (you have to have had a session with me before), please use me as a reference, my P411 ID: P239107. I believe if you have two provider references, you will get a free 6 month membership to P411. Regarding payment options, they do allow payment with a money order should you prefer not having to use your credit card.
Those are my tips regarding safety in the hobby. Looking forward to having some wild fun with my regulars and those that jump off that ledge to visit me!
Hugs and voraciously hungry kisses,
Anita