Anita Love


  1. Money exchanged is for time and companionship only. Anything else that may or may not occur is a matter of personal choice between two or more consenting adults of legal age and is not contracted for, nor requested to be contracted for, or compensated for in any manner.
  2. You must be verified/screened or I am unable to see you, no exceptions. I will never compromise my safety, or yours for any reason.
  3. Please do not be late for our date. If you are running late, please notify me to let me know how late you will be.  If longer than 15 minutes late, in some cases rescheduling may be necessary.
  4. Please do not overstay your appointment.  If you would like to extend our time, please ask me if I have additional time available and provide additional donation for the time you would like to spend.
  5. Donations are not negotiable. If I am lowballed, all communications between us will cease and you will be blocked from contacting me in the future.
  6. Donations must be left in an unsealed envelope on a side table in plain view at the beginning of our date. If we are meeting in public please place the donation in a gift bag or card.
  7. Cash is the preferred method of payment. Alternatives to be discussed once verification/screening has been completed: CashApp $AnitaL5757, Venmo @AnitaL5757, Credit Card (For Credit Card payments, please note that donations are increased by 4% for payment of bank fees) or Vanilla Visa Gift Card.
  8. When booking an appointment, a deposit is preferred for anyone under the age of 35. If an appointment is 90 minutes or longer, a deposit is preferred. Please deposit 25% of the total donation amount via CashApp $AnitaL5757, or Venmo @AnitaL5757, or Amazon Gift Card (Amazon Gift Card or Vanilla Visa Gift Card (gift cards must be sent to Both of those gift cards are purchasable at an area Walgreens. Deposits are non-refundable unless appointments are rescheduled within three weeks of the cancellation. If a client is a longtime regular without a history of cancellation, I may waive the requirement. 
  9. Cancellation policy: I understand life happens and sometimes circumstances are unforeseen, however it takes a lot of effort and time to re-arrange my schedule and make sure I am absolutely perfect for you. I also pay for hotels or private location in advance of our meeting. For this reason I request more than 48 hours notice of need to cancel our date. If 48 hours or less notice and you have NOT paid a deposit, please offer the 25% of the total rate as cancellation fee and send it to me via CashApp $AnitaL5757, Venmo @AnitaL5757, or Amazon Gift Card or Vanilla Visa Gift Card. The gift cards should be sent to me via email at The gift cards are a courtesy option as some of you don’t want a money trail. Both types of gift cards are purchasable at Walgreens. All deposits are forfeited and non-refundable if less than 48 hour notice. If more than 48 hour notice, your deposit can be used to book an alternate date as long as it is booked within four weeks of the cancellation. EXCEPTION: Touring appointments require one week in advance cancellation. 1-week advance notice is needed to cancel Travel plans. I will hold your deposit for up to 60 days for rebooking, less any incurred fees. More than 2 cancellations will result in termination of communication between us and no further time will be scheduled.
  10. Hygiene is of the upmost importance. Please be freshly showered with clean hands and fresh breath! Please also have trimmed nails. If you need to use my shower beforehand, that is preferred to you not having taken a shower. So please ask.
  11. For travel dates and longer engagements. I require at least 5 hours of sleep and at least 3 hours of alone time per day uninterrupted to handle my business affairs.
  12. Regarding providing references for you after our visit: I have had to tweak my policy as gentlemen have abused it. I provide two (2) references after I have seen you one time as long as it is within 12 months of our date. You can always come back to see me again to start the clock over again after I provide those two references. The reality is that if you have seen two providers after me, you should then use those two providers to provide your references thereafter. Please understand that if you have seen me multiple years ago or even in 2019 (before COVID-19) it doesn’t mean I will provide you references currently. I also pay for hotels/apartments in advance of our meeting.

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Booking Form

If you would like to book a session, please use the Booking Form on this page. Please do not ignore the screening questions at the last half of the form. Providing as much information as possible will allow me to screen you quickly.

I am very discreet and no drama. All screening information is purged once you are screened. I do understand discretion.

Should you prefer to screen via email or text message #847-254-2171, that would work as well. Please note that I do need your real first and last name and city/state of residence. I also would like your age as I do have a minimum age. In addition, there are multiple options for screening:

1st option: Work Verification: Provide Work Website that has your name and picture OR Send an email from your work email to me at a discreet email and I will NOT return it. Please note that the email must be from an actual business, not a GMAIL or Yahoo Email address.

2nd option: an URL to your LinkedIN (which has your picture on it), plus either of the following: a real Cell Number OR a PG rated selfie with you holding up 2 fingers in peace sign.

3rd option: 2 provider references that you have seen within the past 12 months. Please provide their email, phone number and website. Please contact them to ask permission to use them as references BEFORE you contact me.

4th option: If a Preferred 411 member, provide your Customer ID# OR (preference) is for you to send a private message to me within P411 to P239107.

5th option: If none of the above, please send over a pic of your ID (mark out your DL number and address is okay) and a recent face selfie or send over a selfie with you holding your ID (must clearly see your full name and picture).

Finally, if you do not want to send any real information and attachments electronically, contact me via email or text to set up an In person social meet to complete screening in person. There is a donation for my time and that is indicated on the Consideration page. You will need to show your ID at the table.

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