Anita Love


My Incall is at apartments in Schaumburg. I do require 24 hour advance notice of appointments on Tuesdays thru Thursdays all day and evening. I do also do incall appointments on Friday and Saturday mornings (no later than a noon start). Again, 24 hours notice. 

Light Screening required for new clientele so please handle screening 24 hours in advance via the Booking Form or via text or email. Out of towner’s, please plan ahead regarding your screening and booking. 

Please provide cash only in an unsealed envelope on the side table. If meeting for dinner or a coffee meet in a public place, please provide donation in a card in a gift bag.  Alternative methods of payment – CashApp, Venmo, Vanilla Visa Gift Card, Credit and Debit Card Payments. 

You can call me, email me or text me. Telephone 847-254-2171 or email:

I do screen/verify any new clients for both of our safety. Please complete the Booking Form. I will take verification/screening via text or email as well.

Please do not ask for an appointment day/time BEFORE you screen as I will ignore you and you also run the risk of being blocked.

For all new clients it typically takes up to 24 hours for a response via email or text or telephone call (please remember to state your preference in the Booking Form). I do sometimes get back to you same day. If you are a current client that has seen me before, you may contact me via telephone or text. I do take time to screen/verify as much as I can before I contact you back so please provide as much info as you can to assist me.

Outcall visits to client locations are only to upscale hotels Mondays thru Saturdays 11am to 11pm and Sundays 7pm thru 11pm. If you know you will be in the Chicagoland area for work/vacation, please complete the Booking Form a minimum of 24 hours in advance, or send me an email or text with screening information and attachments. Minimum outcalls are 90 minutes. You may complete the Booking Form or provide same information via email or text or call me and we can screen over the telephone (telephone verification only works if you have a work website with your name and picture on it, social media presence or provider references within six months). I am flexible as long as I receive the information timely before our first meeting. Please note that parking and Travel Fee are in addition to the outcall donations listed.

Yes, certain fetishes, feet, dom/sub (I’m more dominant) and role plays (I’m a good mom or grandma or aunt). Please note that though I am dominant, I am not a Dominatrix. I am more of a sensual Dom. 

Some of the Light BDSM/Fetish/Strapon activities that I enjoy are:

  • Pegging/strapon
  • nylon fetish
  • Role Play
  • Humiliation
  • Edging/Tease and Denial
  • Financial Domination – Pay Piggy
  • Impact Play
  • CBT
  • Bondage
  • Face Sitting
  • Golden Shower
  • Foot/Body worship
  • Electric Play
  • Sensory Play
  • Tickling
  • Trampling
  • Cross Dress/Feminization/Sissy Training
  • Wax Play
  • Some others not mentioned

No to Greek Islands. Thank you!  

Yes, Full Body Sensual Massages and Kink Massages. Please read both “Interests” Page and “Consideration Page” for more details. 

I have had many reviews on the Reviews page from The Erotic Review (“TER”) and The Erotic Monkey (“EM”) 018941.  Please read those reviews. Please note I have Instituted a NO REVIEW policy due to two real assholes that were jerks inside in the appointment (both did TER reviews) . Everyone that really knows me knows how good I am at my job and how much I enjoy being Wild Anita or Mistress Anita.  I have been at this 8 years and this is the twilight of my career due to retirement upcoming in Spring/Summer 2023. I want to enjoy my last months at it and don’t want to deal any more with the review culture that exists on TER, EM or anywhere else. 

I love both monetary tips and/or gifts, although they are not required or expected. It is very appreciated! The Amazon wish list link and Lovense Link are on my Spoil Me page. Feel free to tip me via CashApp $AnitaL5757, via Venmo @AnitaL5757, via Amazon Giftcard (sent to and Vanilla Visa Gift Card (sent to 

Cash is preferred over any other payment methods but I am now accepting CashApp $AnitaL5757, Venmo @AnitaL5757 (last 4 of phone 5918), Vanilla Visa Gift Cards and Debit or Credit Card Payments. As there is a percentage paid back to the vendors and banks, there is a small 4% upcharge if paying with credit or debit cards.

Cashapp $AnitaL5757, Venmo @AnitaL5757,  or Amazon Gift Card and Vanilla Visa Credit Card sent to, can be used to either pre-pay deposits for appointments or send a cancellation fee amount to me of 25% of the total appointment rate/amount.

I have had to tweak my policy as gentlemen have abused it. I provide two (2) references after I have seen you one time as long as it is within 12 months of our date. You can come back to see me again to start the clock over again for those that plan on repeating. The reality is that if you have seen two providers after me, you should then use those two providers to provide your references thereafter. It’s for the non repeaters that I have had to tweak my policy. Please understand that if you have seen me multiple years ago or even in 2019 (before COVID-19) it doesn’t mean I will provide you references currently. I would suggest you setting up an appointment with me once you are done with your COVID-19 sabbatical.

Yes, for my verified/screened clients and regulars. I do have several girlfriends that I can go to and try to arrange it for you. Minimum of 7 days notice is preferred. We do love playing with each other and you so I know you will have a great time!

If you believe you are mature for your age, please send me an introduction of yourself via email to convince me of that fact. If I believe you are, I will ask you to complete my screening via my Booking form or via email or text.  You cannot be cagey about providing your real information either. Also, you must have no problem with sending a non-refundable deposit when you make your appointment. My preferences are via CashApp., Venmo, Amazon Gift Card, and Vanilla Visa Gift Card. Please do not send deposits until screening has been completed. 

My preference is deposits are mandatory for anyone under the age of 40 when making an appointment and my preference is yes, for any age clients with 2 hours or longer appointments.  In any of those instances (once you are screened of course)  please provide a 25% deposit via CashAPP ($AnitaL5757), Venmo (@AnitaL5757),,  Amazon Gift Card or Vanilla Visa Gift Card (have the gift cards sent to I will waive the requirement for my longstanding regulars, especially if they do not have a cancellation history.

Yes, I do deep french kiss. I can’t imagine having a connection with my client without kissing. I always ask a new client at the beginning if they do kiss just so that I know can proceed with kissing them. If their preference is no kissing, then I follow their lead and won’t do it.
  1. Cancellation policy: I understand life happens and sometimes circumstances are unforeseen, however it takes a lot of effort and time to re-arrange my schedule and make sure I am absolutely perfect for you. I also pay for hotels or private location in advance of our meeting. For this reason I request 48 hours notice of need to cancel our date. If 48 hours or less notice and you have NOT paid a deposit, please offer the 25% of the total rate as a cancellation fee and send it to me via CashApp, Venmo, Amazon Gift Card or Visa Gift Card. The gift cards should be sent to me via email at All deposits are forfeited and non-refundable if less than 48 hour notice. If more than 48 hour notice, your deposit can be used to book an alternate date as long as it is booked within three weeks of the cancellation. For TOURING, 7 days advance notice for cancellations. 1-week advance notice is needed to cancel Travel plans. I will hold your deposit for up to 45 days for rebooking, less any incurred fees. More than 2 cancellations will result in termination of communication between us and no further time will be schedule

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Booking Form

If you would like to book a session, please use the Booking Form on this page. Please do not ignore the screening questions at the last half of the form. Providing as much information as possible will allow me to screen you quickly.

I am very discreet and no drama. All screening information is purged once you are screened. I do understand discretion.

Should you prefer to screen via email or text message #847-254-2171, that would work as well. Please note that I do need your real first and last name and city/state of residence. I also would like your age as I do have a minimum age. In addition, there are multiple options for screening:

1st option: Work Verification: Provide Work Website that has your name and picture OR Send an email from your work email to me at a discreet email and I will NOT return it. Please note that the email must be from an actual business, not a GMAIL or Yahoo Email address.

2nd option: an URL to your LinkedIN (which has your picture on it), plus either of the following: a real Cell Number OR a PG rated selfie with you holding up 2 fingers in peace sign.

3rd option: 2 provider references that you have seen within the past 12 months. Please provide their email, phone number and website. Please contact them to ask permission to use them as references BEFORE you contact me.

4th option: If a Preferred 411 member, provide your Customer ID# OR (preference) is for you to send a private message to me within P411 to P239107.

5th option: If none of the above, please send over a pic of your ID (mark out your DL number and address is okay) and a recent face selfie or send over a selfie with you holding your ID (must clearly see your full name and picture).

Finally, if you do not want to send any real information and attachments electronically, contact me via email or text to set up an In person social meet to complete screening in person. There is a donation for my time and that is indicated on the Consideration page. You will need to show your ID at the table.

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