Anita Love


My Incall is in one of three locations: Lombard/Oak Brook, Schaumburg and Northbrook/Deerfield. My hours are 8am thru 10pm Mondays thru Fridays. Saturdays 8am to Noon (the Saturday appointments must be booked on the Friday before) and no incall on Sundays.

I do host outcalls 11am thru 11pm (advance notice 3 hours to 24 hours notice preferred) on Mondays thru Saturdays. Outcalls to upscale hotels and private homes (no condominiums or apartments).

Light Screening required for new clientele so please handle screening 24 hours in advance via the Booking Form or via text or email. Out of towner’s, please plan ahead regarding your screening!

Please provide cash only in an unsealed envelope on the side table. If meeting for dinner or a coffee meet in a public place, please provide donation in a card in a gift bag.

You can call me, email me or text me. Telephone 847-254-2171 or email:

I do screen/verify any new clients for both of our safety. Please complete the Booking Form. I will take verification/screening via text or email as well.

Please do not ask for an appointment day/time BEFORE you screen as I will ignore you and you also run the risk of being blocked.

For all new clients it typically takes up to 24 hours for a response via email or text or telephone call (please remember to state your preference in the Booking Form). I do sometimes get back to you same day. If you are a current client that has seen me before, you may contact me via telephone or text. I do take time to screen/verify as much as I can before I contact you back so please provide as much info as you can to assist me.

Outcall visits to client locations are only to finer hotels or upscale residences (no apartments or condos) Mondays thru Saturdays 11am to 11pm and Sundays 7pm thru 11pm. If you know you will be in the Chicagoland area for work/vacation, please complete the Booking Form a minimum of 24 hours in advance. You may complete the Booking Form or provide same information via email or text or call me and we can screen over the telephone. I am flexible as long as I receive the information timely before our first meeting. Please note that parking and Uber (Uber is used for downtown Chicago appointments only, not suburbs) and are in addition to the outcall donations listed.

Yes, certain fetishes, feet, dom/sub (I’m more dominant) and role plays (I’m a good mom or grandma or aunt). Please note that though I am dominant, I am not a Dominatrix. I am more of a sensual Dom. 

Some of the Light BDSM/Fetish/Strapon activities that I enjoy are:

  • Pegging/strapon
  • nylon fetish
  • Role Play
  • Humiliation
  • Edging/Tease and Denial
  • Spanking 
  • CBT
  • Bondage
  • Face Sitting
  • Golden Shower
  • Foot/Body worship
  • Tickling
  • Trampling
  • Cross Dress/Feminization/Sissy Training
  • Pay Piggy
  • Some others not mentioned


No to Greek Islands. Thank you!  

I have had many reviews in the past on both The Erotic Review website, TER ID 256588 and on the Erotic Monkey EMID: 018941. Many of my reviews are very good. But some clients in the review sites prefer body perfection and as I am not (I am age 55 with an all natural sagging tits and a belly), sometimes reviews are not favorable. I have included some reviews in their entirety (unedited by me) for your review on this website. You can go to The Erotic Review and Erotic Monkey and check for accuracy on that.
I love both monetary tips and/or gifts, although they are not required or expected. It is very appreciated! The Amazon wish list link is on my Spoil Me page. Feel free to tip me via CashApp $Penzack38, via Venmo @penzack38 or via Amazon Giftcard (sent to

Cash is preferred over any other payment methods but I am now accepting CashApp, Venmo, Vanilla Visa Gift Cards and Debit or Credit Card Payments. As there is a percentage paid back to the vendors and banks, there is a small 4% upcharge if paying with credit or debit cards.

Cashapp $penzack38 or Venmo @penzack38, Amazon Gift Card and Vanilla Visa Credit Card, can be used to either pre-pay deposits for appointments or send a cancellation amount to me for $60 per one hour appointment.

While I appreciate your need for discretion, my safety is as important as your privacy. Trust is an integral part of our relationship. If I cannot verify you, I cannot see you. Please complete the Booking Form on this website to make an appointment with me. Or you may verify via email or text message. I really only need a couple of methods to verify so it isn’t as tedious as it looks on the instructions.

I have had to tweak my policy as gentlemen have abused it. I provide two (2) references after I have seen you one time as long as it is within 12 months of our date. You can come back to see me again to start the clock over again for those that plan on repeating. The reality is that if you have seen two providers after me, you should then use those two providers to provide your references thereafter. Please understand that if you have seen me multiple years ago or even in 2019 (before COVID-19) doesn’t mean I will provide you references currently. I would suggest you setting up an appointment with me once you are done with your COVID-19 sabbatical.

Yes, for my verified/screened clients and regulars. I do have two girlfriends (Lauren Goode and Savannah of Milwaukee) that I can go to and try to arrange it for you. 24 to 48 hours notice is preferred. We do love playing with each other and you so I know you will have a great time!

If you believe you are mature for your age, please send me an introduction of yourself via email to convince me of that fact. If I believe you are, I will ask you to complete my screening via my Booking form or via email or text.  You cannot be cagey about providing your real information either. Also, you must have no problem with sending a non-refundable deposit when you make your appointment. My preference is via CashApp. Please do not send deposits until screening has been completed. 

My preference is deposits are mandatory for anyone under the age of 35 when making an appointment and my preference is yes, for 90 minutes or longer appointments.  In any of those instances (once you are screened of course)  please provide a 20% deposit via CashAPP ($penzack38), Venmo (@penzack38) Amazon Gift Card or Vanilla Visa Gift Card (have the gift cards sent to For some of my longstanding regulars, I will waive the requirement for them especially if they do not have a cancellation history.

Yes, I do deep french kiss. I can’t imagine having a connection with my client without kissing. I always ask a new client at the beginning if they do kiss just so that I know can proceed with kissing them. If their preference is no kissing, then I follow their lead and won’t do it.
Due to the new COVID-19 variant, my new policy is to only see vaccinated gentlemen. This is such a dangerous time and as I do see many seniors as my regulars, I would never want to jeopardize their health or the health of their families. I am fully vaccinated for COVID-19 and I will get the booster shot when it is available. My clients do matter to me.

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If you would like to book a session, please use the Booking Form on this page. Providing as much information as possible will allow me to screen you quickly and possibly allow you to get a same day meeting. Obviously I cannot promise that I will meet you same day as sometimes it is 24 to 48 hours especially if I am contacting references as many providers do not get back to me same day.

You must complete the screening portion of the booking form (and if no references or memberships or social media presence), please attach your ID (It is okay to mark out DL number and address) and Business Card.

Please note I am a no drama girl and have no interest in getting involved in your personal life. I carry myself very professionally and as my reviews all state, I am down to earth and genuine when you meet me.

All screening information is purged once you are screened. I do know and understand discretion and I expect the same discretion from you as I also have a real life and family.

Should you prefer to screen via email or text message #847-254-2171, that would work as well.
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