I think the biggest differences between the mature and under age 40 clients is that the mature clients focus almost solely on oral on the woman versus the multiple intercourse positions.
By the way I don’t prefer mature clients over the youngers based solely on that. I do LOVE BOTH oral on me and intercourse. The main reasons: the younger guys have a tendency to flake and not show up for their appointments (no call no shows) or they show up late to appointments as well as they incessantly descriptively text providers to use them for more virtual gratification without paying for virtual appointments. Text messages and emails are strictly for setting appointments and notifying providers if you are running late. If you send money for virtual appointment via CashAPP or Amazon gift card, then the provider and you can decide when a mutually agreed upon virtual appointment will work. See my Paid Phone page for that information. Please note that texting and asking if available for virtual is usually ignored because most providers think you are trying for a free virtual. Seeing money having been sent, I do my best to get a virtual appointment scheduled for both of our schedules. Immediate virtual on the spot unfortunately isn’t always possible as if I have an in person client on the way for a meet or if after I go to bed at 10pm. If I know ahead of time I can stay up the extra hour to have a virtual appointment. No, no virtuals after 11pm please.
So how can one improve their lovemaking game to please ALL partners?
1. Take it seriously. First off, everything isn’t a joke. A lot of men try to overly joke with their partners. Sometimes you just have to be serious and set the stage for a wonderful lovemaking session.
2. You can communicate with her and ask her what turns her on before you start your evening together. “Listening” to her gives her the encouragement to communicate better on her wants and needs. It’s a definite turn on to talk about it as well.
3. Put some romantic music on, dim the lights, light some candles even and maybe crack open a bottle of wine to drink together. This helps relax both of you and sets a mood. Obviously if you know she doesn’t drink, the bottle of wine can be taken out of the situation.
4. How about starting with an old fashioned make out session? Sitting on the couch and lots of deep french kissing can really set the evening in the right direction. Something about tongues meeting, well, it makes this tigress extra horny.
5. Don’t touch her between her legs too soon. Just take your time deep french kissing first.
6. Always keep those doors of communication open with your partner throughout the evening. Have her set the tone of when she is ready to move onto more than deep french kissing.
7. How about you take turns undressing each other? Your mouth going down her body as you take a piece of clothing off of her is such a wonderful stimulation to her. Encourage her to undress you as well. It’s a two way street.
8. Take a shower together! If you think she hasn’t showered since the morning and you haven’t either, it’s much better once clothes are off to lead into the shower and wash each others parts. The rest of the lovemaking session will go much smoother and be more erotic.
9. After the shower, explore her entire body including her erogenous zones with your mouth to really get her excited and stimulated! She’ll be gripping the sheets and crying out, I promise! Encourage her to expore your erogenous zones as well!
10. Pamper her with a massage of her entire body as well as rubbing her feet and for those foot fetish guys, you can expand beyond massaging to licking her toes and such. She may even be willing to return that favor to you!
11. Definitely focus on her clitoris and lick and suction it. If fingering her pussy, please use some lube on your finger. It doesn’t feel good to be clawed with fingernails. Yes, clipping your nails before lovemaking is a NECESSITY.
12. Use toys on her to continue to stimulate her in an erotic way. Please don’t stuff the toy inside of her in a fucking motion without adding lots of lube and taking it slowly. I said in an “erotic way”, not like a “bat out of hell”. Yes, toys can be painful if not taking the proper care.
13. Encourage her to go down on your body to all parts and explore your parts as well. It’s not a race to get to the finish line. Taking turns on eacher should be fun and relaxing. You should be communicating with her as much as she can communicate with you.
14. Foreplay should be slow and erotic for both partners. This can last a lot longer than 10 minutes. How about an hour even?
15. When she appears to be really ready (in that she has cum already and she is properly lubricated), then moving onto intercourse and various positions should be the next step. I thing naked body to body stimulations should always be concentrated on first. She’ll lead to when she is fully ready.
16. Intercourse should always be taken slow. Also allow for the fact if your “skippy” is bigger, to maybe let her ride you a bit first to get used to your size. That is much easier on her than missionary and doggie where both of those can hurt initially. Obviously once she is used to your size, moving to other positions works well. Also remember that missionary and cowgirl are wonderful positions to keep the deep french kissing going. Doggie could wait until you further your relationship a little.
17. Give her lots of eye contact during the tender parts of lovemaking. It’s another way of communicating that is so under rated.
18. There are other options such as trying Tantric Sex positions. Maybe exploring a Tantric Sex book together even? There are a lot of “how to” guides for that on the internet available for free.
19. Hold her afterwards. The whole lovemaking shouldn’t end with the climax. You should even kiss a bit more and just communicate even. It’s so important for the man to appear romantic and not just about himself. It’s a reason why so many relationships fail is that intimacy and romanticism is gone in the relationship. Turning over and going to bed after without holding each other can lead to breaks in the relationship.
Hope all of these tips help my gentlemen out there. It should help men of any age, not just the young under 35’s. Men need some reminders in how to keep the “home fires” burning!
Hugs and voraciously hungry kisses,
Anita