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Hi there, all. I know I haven’t posted much, but my web developer removed the schedule because it weighed down the servers. Please note that unless I post otherwise on the blog, I can meet clients in Schaumburg at the apartments, but I do need the 24-hour notice. The lady that subrents to me does … Going forward, I am hosting in Schaumburg apartments unless you read otherwise. 24 hour notice preferred.

Hi there, everyone. I’ve had some Schaumburg hotel guys reach out separately as they prefer more of a grandfather discount to see if I will go back to doing weekly hotels in Schaumburg, Lombard, Northbrook, and even Tinley Park, but since they ask different weeks, I never know if I could make money that way … Hotels vs Apartments etc.

Hi there, all. I have been having trouble getting responses from men after they have initiated contact with me (they email first) to get together. Three different gents have literally ghosted me. Even if something came up and they couldn’t meet, you’d think they’d have the courtesy to let me know. But beyond that, there … Do not forget to check Spam Folders when corresponding via email with a Provider!

Hi there, everyone.  While I have been touring, a bit of controversy and drama on Twitter has erupted. Some of you don’t have a Twitter and some do and may be aware of the issue that came up last week. There is a Boston Provider @StaceySmithVIP (a 20-something blonde provider),  who posted on Twitter earlier … Discretion is at the center of my business! Please read..

Hi there, all. I think it’s time to bring up the subject that hobbyists/clients hate the most.  It’s deposits and cancellation fees. I’m not a mandatory deposit lady for those that have seen me before and without a history of cancellation. I mainly ask for deposits from the age 30’s and under crowd because they … The reason behind deposits and cancellation fees explained

Hi there, all. A gentle reminder that if a provider/SW is traveling to within a couple of hours of you, and you’ve been wanting to see her for a long time, why NOT just drive the distance? I mean, the alternative for me is a gentleman flies to Chicago to meet me but with the … Reminder – re Providers that tour within 2 to 2 1/2 hours of your residence!

Hi there. Another tidbit, most providers including myself do not answer any blocked numbers such as ones that come up “NO CALLER ID” or “UNKNOWN Number”.  I do answer some of those gentlemen that call with GOOGLE numbers or Burner Phones but believe me sometimes it’s easier to let them go through to voicemail or … Reminder – NO BLOCKED numbers answered!

Well, there are flaky escorts out there that do not return calls or emails or texts promptly so it could be many reasons starting with her being flaky and just not responsive. It is usually a younger provider that shows more flakiness than the mature providers however. Most of the mature providers do get back … Ask Anita – I have been seeing this mature escort for awhile but now she never returns my calls/refuses to see me? What can I do?

No, of course not. Nothing makes me angry more than close minded people that label others. I witnessed several gentlemen on the discussion boards on The Erotic Review call those gentlemen that enjoy pegging as “Gay” and of course me being Anita, that fiery tigress, told them where to head in on that one! I … Ask Anita – Does wanting pegging or strap-on play mean I am gay?

LOL, what a cutie! The gentleman that asked that question is 70 something! This is why I LOVE my job. I meet such womderful older gentlemen. I know you all think I am just saying that because I make money doing this but I truly think I am the luckiest provider in the world! See … Ask Anita – What is this doubles, or a threesome with two women and a guy? I can barely handle one woman, much less two..